What the right Guidance will do for self esteem
This is a facebook post from someone I have worked with about her relationships and issues
I don’t really brag about myself or anything like that a lot…. But I want to put this into perspective for some people…. My entire life I’ve been self conscious about myself…. My weight my looks the list goes on…. I have always been afraid to put myself out there to either try and make friends or just about anything else…. Half of you on my friends list I have met through other people….. I’m a person terrified of doing something wrong…. But that’s not me anymore…. Anyway the point to this post is to inform everyone of my transformation…. A lot of my closer friends know I have bad anxiety these days…. And yes it sucks….. But I’m working with it… Also I have been getting compliments on how great I look and honestly I haven’t really gotten comments like that…. People who know me know I haven’t been the skinniest and I have been a smidge overweight for my body type…. I should exercise yes but I just never do…. But since everything in my life has been happening in such a blur I have dropped weight like no tomorrow…. But honestly the weight that I have dropped has made me feel really good about myself… I feel more confident as my weight was a huge part of my issue…. But I will have everyone know that I used to be a size 11 jeans and since April of this year I have dropped enough weight to fit back into my favorite size 7 jeans!…. Also I really want to thank a lot of people who have been helping me through a super tough time… Also rekindled friendships with Aleah and also my amazingly supportive boyfriend Chris thank you guys for being here for me… And my newly acquired big brother type Chris I have no clue what I would do without you guys in my life!!! I also want to give the biggest thanks to my mom Candice and her fiance Aaron you both are awesome and have been a couple of my biggest supporters….. I love you ALL so much and thank you for helping me through this difficult time I have been in…also a special thank you to John OConnor for helping guide me to see my self worth… I’m sorry this post is so long but I want everyone to know that I’m making it through my tough time in need and I have amazing people who love me and care…. And I’m glad to have them in my life as I achieve more happiness and reach my life goals! I love you guys and thank you for being here for me!